{"id":63410,"date":"2018-10-16T15:39:35","date_gmt":"2018-10-16T15:39:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wellvyl.com\/death-abs-smoothies\/?p=63410"},"modified":"2020-06-09T07:52:04","modified_gmt":"2020-06-09T07:52:04","slug":"chores-gender","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/chores-gender\/","title":{"rendered":"CHORES &amp;amp;amp;amp;amp; GENDER"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Growing up there has always been this concept of what gender does what around the house. For example, being that I grew up with the majority of females and one male, the chores were evenly split between myself, my sister, and my two cousins and my brother didn\u2019t have to do much of anything except keep his room clean. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">These particular chores included cleaning the kitchen, cleaning the bathroom, collectively cleaning the living room, sweeping, mopping, or vacuuming the hallway, and making sure that our rooms were clean. It also included cooking dinner when we got older to do so. Now, as a child growing up, you don\u2019t think much of it. You just know that it will shape you and prepare you for when it\u2019s your turn to be an adult and how to keep your house kept and clean. But what happens to the men who don\u2019t know the basics as they get older? \u00a0Did these gender roles play a harmful part in it all?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"filip mroz 220805 unsplash\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-63412\" src=\"https:\/\/wellvyl.com\/death-abs-smoothies\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/filip-mroz-220805-unsplash-214x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"214\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/filip-mroz-220805-unsplash-214x300.jpg 214w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/filip-mroz-220805-unsplash-768x1075.jpg 768w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/filip-mroz-220805-unsplash-731x1024.jpg 731w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/filip-mroz-220805-unsplash-700x980.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 214px) 100vw, 214px\" \/> <img alt=\"rawpixel 752513 unsplash\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-63413\" src=\"https:\/\/wellvyl.com\/death-abs-smoothies\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-752513-unsplash-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-752513-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-752513-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-752513-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-752513-unsplash-700x467.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/> <img alt=\"rawpixel 777268 unsplash 1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-63414\" src=\"https:\/\/wellvyl.com\/death-abs-smoothies\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-777268-unsplash-1-300x195.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"195\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-777268-unsplash-1-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-777268-unsplash-1-768x499.jpg 768w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-777268-unsplash-1-1024x665.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-777268-unsplash-1-400x260.jpg 400w, https:\/\/staging.wellvyl.com\/media\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/10\/rawpixel-777268-unsplash-1-700x455.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Some may say no, but I believe that it has. Since the beginning of time, it was instilled in us that the women\u2019s role was to maintain the home meaning for them to cook and clean for the man while the man is to be the breadwinner of the family. \u00a0But as time changed, this ideology stayed the same. There are many men who have to depend on a woman to cook for them or to clean for them because they were never taught to do so on their own when they were younger. It\u2019s not fair but that is what\u2019s happening, but how do prevent this cycle from continuing? Everything begins at home. I believe that in the household there should be no gender roles when it comes down to doing chores. If the girl has to learn how to cook and clean so should the boy. It will help them both develop a sense of independence for when they get older. It will also become a generational thing to break the gender role and harmful cycle of only the female doing the chores. And let\u2019s be real, women don\u2019t want a lazy man and men don\u2019t want a lazy woman either. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I say break the gender roles and make everything equal between the boys and girls, men and women, husband and wife. <\/span> <br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html\">http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html<\/a> <br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html\">http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html<\/a> <br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html\">http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html<\/a> <br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html\">http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-next.html<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Growing up there has always been this concept of what gender does what around the house. 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